How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 21.06.2025 01:57

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Making more friends is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Why do men say women hit the wall at 24?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
That's it for today.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Buying Guide: The Best Watches For Life During Summer 2025 - Monochrome Watches
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Can I use the LEG PRESS to build muscle?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
What do feminists mean when they say they want to ‘normalize’ menstruation and its discussion?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Ask yourself:
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
‘Cyberpunk 2077’ Is The Switch 2’s #2 Launch Game - Forbes
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Procrastinates a lot.
Do you want to have an XXX chat?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
What I need from you?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Does not procrastinate.
The Aging Brain: 6 Things You Should Be Doing to Slow Cognitive Decline - CNET
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
How do military families handle communication when a service member is injured overseas?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.